“Infidelity Crisis: How to gain forgiveness and respect after your affair” is a unique and human examination of the emotional issues that follow affair discovery and a practical road-map that the offending partner can utilize to contribute to the recovery of his or her marriage. It was written by a former betrayed spouse to help the offending partner to save and heal his or her marriage, and it is currently the only infidelity book available that concentrates exclusively on the role of the unfaithful partner during the early stages of affair discovery. It immediately tackles the tough emotional issues that surface after an affair is discovered and outlines a concrete and practical plan that anyone who sincerely desires to rebuild his or her marriage after an affair can understand and employ with success. A pro-family, Christian friendly surviving infidelity resource.
Key points include:
Why you are the partner who can profoundly change your marriage at this time;
The #1 cause of unforgiveness after an affair;
Why respect is crucial to marital stability;
Why forgiving yourself will make it easier for your spouse to forgive you;
How to avoid two common emotional attitudes that enable failure;
How to recognize emotional priorities that can sabotage your best efforts to save and heal your marriage;
20+ statements that you should never make to your spouse after an affair and why;
Why the people who love you the most will give you the worst advice concerning your marriage;
How to conserve time and energy while working faithfully to restore your marriage;
How to reduce the likelihood of a retaliatory affair;
How to avoid "warfare" in your marriage;
How to help your spouse get over their anger in a timely manner;
How to reduce the likelihood of bitterness;
How to stop arguments dead in their path;
How to end any embarrassment you or your spouse feels over the affair;
What you can do to work on your marriage if your spouse requests separation;
And much more...
